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Developing Leadership Presence
Mon Jan 13 2014
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Quite frequently in my leadership consulting and coaching practice, I am asked about leadership presence, specifically how to increase someone’s executive presence or board room presence.
Quite frequently in my leadership consulting and coaching practice, I am asked about leadership presence, specifically how to increase someone’s executive presence or board room presence.
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Coincidently, many of the men and women who bring this up are people whom I believe already do, in fact, have significant leadership presence. This may not be surprising as we all have some degree of insecurity—that inner voice in our mind that often whispers negative thoughts to us.
Coincidently, many of the men and women who bring this up are people whom I believe already do, in fact, have significant leadership presence. This may not be surprising as we all have some degree of insecurity—that inner voice in our mind that often whispers negative thoughts to us.
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The key questions become how much insecurity do we have and how do we manage it? While there is a wealth of good information about this subject on the Internet and in books, articles, and videos, let me offer my ideas gained from my experience.
The key questions become how much insecurity do we have and how do we manage it? While there is a wealth of good information about this subject on the Internet and in books, articles, and videos, let me offer my ideas gained from my experience.
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Basic principles of presence
Basic principles of presence
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Our leadership presence stands on the shoulders of our character—our values, how we carry ourselves, how we think, what we say and what we do. Here are basic principles that will help us a great deal.
Our leadership presence stands on the shoulders of our character—our values, how we carry ourselves, how we think, what we say and what we do. Here are basic principles that will help us a great deal.
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Have a positive attitude, be encouraging and helpful to others, and never—I repeat, never—speak critically about someone behind his back (doing so reflects poorly on you).
Have a positive attitude, be encouraging and helpful to others, and never—I repeat, never—speak critically about someone behind his back (doing so reflects poorly on you).
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Be an attentive listener. Listen to understand and learn. Lean forward. Let people sense your interest and that you care. If appropriate, take notes. It is a sign of respect.
Be an attentive listener. Listen to understand and learn. Lean forward. Let people sense your interest and that you care. If appropriate, take notes. It is a sign of respect.
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Use your soft skills. Be friendly, warm, and welcoming.
Use your soft skills. Be friendly, warm, and welcoming.
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Don’t talk about yourself. Realize that your listening is your gift to others, so be curious. Try to listen 80 percent and speak 20 percent of the time.
Don’t talk about yourself. Realize that your listening is your gift to others, so be curious. Try to listen 80 percent and speak 20 percent of the time.
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Want to impress someone? Ask helpful questions that show your leadership presence. For example, “What first step could you take to help you achieve that goal?” or “What is holding you back?”
Want to impress someone? Ask helpful questions that show your leadership presence. For example, “What first step could you take to help you achieve that goal?” or “What is holding you back?”
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Appearance is important. Dress neatly and for the occasion. Being well groomed and smiling helps, as do comfortable eye contact, a firm handshake, standing tall with shoulders back, and walking purposefully like an athlete. We can all do that.
Appearance is important. Dress neatly and for the occasion. Being well groomed and smiling helps, as do comfortable eye contact, a firm handshake, standing tall with shoulders back, and walking purposefully like an athlete. We can all do that.
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Try to always be early.
Try to always be early.
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Remember names. This not only is important, but also a simple way to impress people.
Remember names. This not only is important, but also a simple way to impress people.
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Speak with clarity; it is a sign of your strength.
Speak with clarity; it is a sign of your strength.
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Allow yourself to be vulnerable.
Allow yourself to be vulnerable.
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Remember: it’s not about you, it’s about others. True leaders genuinely care about others and their success.
Remember: it’s not about you, it’s about others. True leaders genuinely care about others and their success.
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Show that you are comfortable with yourself by asking for feedback and advice, accepting that you have areas for personal development. This shows how we should strive for continuous improvement.
Show that you are comfortable with yourself by asking for feedback and advice, accepting that you have areas for personal development. This shows how we should strive for continuous improvement.
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Don’t seek personal credit or the spotlight. Share credit with others, and celebrate their success, even small successes.
Don’t seek personal credit or the spotlight. Share credit with others, and celebrate their success, even small successes.
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Give helpful and timely feedback, even critical feedback in an encouraging manner.
Give helpful and timely feedback, even critical feedback in an encouraging manner.
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Try to maintain your composure, even under stress. Recognize that as a leader, you are a signal sender. What signal do you want to send? How about “We can do this”?
Try to maintain your composure, even under stress. Recognize that as a leader, you are a signal sender. What signal do you want to send? How about “We can do this”?
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Take the time to have conversations. I know you’re way too busy. Figure out how you can “unplug” so you can have conversations, even short conversations, and develop and maintain relationships. Business is about relationships, the quality of our relationships and trust. This means less time in front of your computer and in meetings. Develop your strategy, do what works for you.
Take the time to have conversations. I know you’re way too busy. Figure out how you can “unplug” so you can have conversations, even short conversations, and develop and maintain relationships. Business is about relationships, the quality of our relationships and trust. This means less time in front of your computer and in meetings. Develop your strategy, do what works for you.
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Handle problems gracefully and promptly. You’ll be respected.
Handle problems gracefully and promptly. You’ll be respected.
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Your leadership presence, how you are perceived and accepted by others, is founded on your attitude, your character, and how you act when no one is watching. It’s about your positive energy: being there for and helping others. It’s about being genuine and comfortable in your own skin.
Your leadership presence, how you are perceived and accepted by others, is founded on your attitude, your character, and how you act when no one is watching. It’s about your positive energy: being there for and helping others. It’s about being genuine and comfortable in your own skin.
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A leader is a signal sender, so think about the signals you want to send. Keep your composure, remain calm, and let your team members sense that you have confidence in them, as well as yourself. Doing so, will signal to the team the message: “Let’s do our best, and we can succeed.” That’s leadership presence.
A leader is a signal sender, so think about the signals you want to send. Keep your composure, remain calm, and let your team members sense that you have confidence in them, as well as yourself. Doing so, will signal to the team the message: “Let’s do our best, and we can succeed.” That’s leadership presence.