You may not have been conscious of it at the time, but you are about to realize people have been surreptitiously resisting your help. Oh, sure, they claimed to want your assistance in an effort to appear collaborative. But beneath the surface they were actually blowing you off.
Peter Block, author of the book Flawless Consulting, defines resistance as “a predictable, natural, emotional reaction against the process of being helped and against the process of having to face up to diff